It
takes two to tango! So does it take two understanding people to make a
relationship work. Every man wants a woman that supports him and who can
hangout with he and his friends. You don’t want to be the girlfriend
that is never given attention or confused on how to get him crazy about
you again. So here are some important tips to consider if you want him
running into your arms, every single time!
1. Show him love
This is definitely the first step to
owning that spot in his heart. Love him like he’s the only guy in the
world. Make him feel special and happy. Let him know and feel that he’s
the king of your heart and no one can replace him. He likes the fact
that you’re crazy about him so show him by giving him those tender
kisses, hugs, smooches, and say “I love you” when there’s a chance.
2. Don’t be too possessive
Its cute to get jealous at times and
make him feel like you dont want to loose him to anyone but when you
start checking his messages and contact list, that can be a big turn
off. Your man doesnt want to feel like he is being monitored or watched.
Have some trust him and let him feel that he has got a confident woman
not an insecure girl.
3. Just be yourself
Don’t try to be like a supermodel or
Beyonce because he likes her music or has a few photos of her on his
phone or change the way you laugh or act because you want to impress
him. Men notice all that but its not going to change a thing because he
loves you for who you are and that is the reason he asked you out in the
first place. Look good for him, stay fresh and as beautiful as you were
when you just met . So be free to laugh loud and act silly around him,
he likes it!
4. Care for him
Let him know that you are always going
to be there for him through thick and thin not just by saying it but
your actions should correspond. Ask him about his family especially the
brother or sister that he is really attached to. Talk about work and
what business venture he plans to dive into. Be the caring girlfriend
that wants to know if he has had lunch,dinner, how healthy he is eating.
You can also put in some efforts by cooking for him or preparing
something special and bringing it to him. The path to a man’s heart is
through his belly so cook well for him.
5. Give him space
Yes ladies, give your man some space!
You don’t want him feeling all chocked up around you. Let him have some
time to hangout with his friends and do some exciting thing except he
invites you, best time to hangout with your friends too. Don’t be a
clinch or the girlfriend that is there 24/7. Let him miss you a little
and think about you then give you a call.
6. Be independent
Don’t be the girl who runs to her man at
every little problem, try to fix things yourself. At the beginning of
the relationship he might find it cute that you see him worthy enough to
help out but if you keep calling on him, he might begin to find it
irritating so don’t push it ladies. Pay your own bills if you can, fix
that broken tap or call a plumber. Don’t stress him out or be that needy
chick, he can start to think twice about you.
7. Never compare him to your Ex’s
He might not be hottest or the richest
but he’s willing to do everything in his power to please you and make
you happy. So acknowledge the fact that he’s putting in effort and make
him feel appreciated. Don’t complain when that favour you requested for
isn’t forthcoming or make spiteful comments about he not measuring up to
your ex. That can hurt his pride so instead just be supportive and give
him the energy he requires emotionally.
8. Communicate with him
Let him know what’s going on in your
life and what your fears are, he’s listening! A problem shared is half
solved so confide in him and he will do the same. He’s not a magician
and cannot read your mind so don’t be shy to open up to him about work,
the girl you’re having problems with, your family. Let him be your
friend not just your lover. There should always be something to talk
about but when there’s nothing, just cherish the silence and cuddle.
9. Stay Loyal
Chris Brown thinks we ain’t, prove him
wrong! BE LOYAL. Don’t be the chick that flirts with her man’s friends
or keeps secrets, he might start to have reasons to doubt your loyalty.
Let him know he’s the only one and you’re as committed as he is in the
relationship. Be honest and never leave anything unsaid concerning your
feelings or changes you’re starting to see that you don’t like.
10. Be positive
Learn to see the best in him and give
compliments when he does something right or when he’s looking his best.
Try to embrace him and let him know that you liked it when he helped
with the dishes or helped to carry your bag. Don’t be negative or start
silly arguments, that’s a total turnoff! When you focus on the negative,
all you”ll see is negativity. Be the backbone he needs and not the bone
in his throat.
