- Your first date is the biggest night, its your chance to make a permanent impression and trust me positive impressions are noticed and negative ones ruins a lot. You are likely to be nervous and just go on chattering or worse making a fool of yourself. To guide against this, here are tips on what you should never say or do on a first date.
1. PAST RELATIONSHIP DISASTERS
‘My ex wronged me, he hurt me so bad’ or
‘I am still very much in love with my ex’ Zip it! Don’t ever mention
that on a first date or any date at that. Your ‘ex’ is in your past,
there is a reason he/she is your ‘ex’ so let it stay in the past. Else
he/she is going to think you wanna make them pay for what another
person did.
2. YOUR DATE IS NOT A TV SCREEN
Don’t let him/her do all the talking
while you just seat there and watch like it’s some reality show. You too
should start a conversation, make jokes, make them laugh, most people
easily fall in love with a person with a sense of humour.
3. DON’T BATH IN YOUR PERFUME(S)
You should smell nice, everyone love a
nice fragrance but when you start smelling like 10 designer
perfumes that’s so wrong. You don’t want your date to choke on his/her
breath.
4. DON’T LOOK LIKE YOU JUST ROLLED OUT OF BED
Your natural look is one thing but
looking like you can’t be bothered on a first date is definitely a deal
breaker, the efforts you make to look good will not go un-noticed, don’t
make your date think they are not worth the effort. Its a first date,
so make it look like one.
5. ACTING LIKE SOME GODDESS WAITING TO BE WORSHIPED
You feel you are very
beautiful/handsome, everyone feels that way about themselves but when
you start acting like a trophy to be won on a first date… All the best
oo!
6. GLANCING AT OTHER PEOPLE
You might think your date is not looking but trust me, first dates are for strict observation..LOL.
7. EATING HALF OF THE ORDER
If you can’t eat a full plate then order
a half plate, don’t order for food and eat half leaving the other half
for ‘who’? Men think its ‘hot’ when a woman un-apologetically enjoys a
good meal and likewise.
8. LITTLE MISS PERFECT
Come off it! Be yourself, don’t speak
from your nose, don’t laugh at everything he says even when its not
funny, don’t be fake, he’ll know. You will just look like a freak.
9. DON’T EVER GET DRUNK ON A DATE
Its a date and not a drinking night. He
might drop up at home just to make sure you are safe but no one want to
get stuck with a drunk.
10. TELLING SECRETS
Don’t start ‘can I share my darkest secret with you’? On a first date, its really bad. At least let him/her prove trustworthy.
11. LIFE IS NOT THAT GREAT
Seriously? You don’t want your date thinking you don’t have your life together!
12. DO YOU INTEND TO MARRY ME?
Yeesh….are you kidding, he/she is going
to feel like you are just meaning to trap him/her. Most people hate
marriage talk,’ they are not ready until they are ready’ so don’t ever
ask that on a first date.
13. HATE MY JOB TALK
Please keep all negativity to a minimal, no job talk, no one wants to be around a pessimist or a sadist. So please zip it!
14. BRINGING YOUR FRIEND(s)
This is not a Hang out its a ‘first’ date. Three is a crowd, so once you bring your friends then its called hanging out.
15. FINANCE/INCOME
Please keep that talk for your
accountant, no one needs to know how rich or broke you or your family
is, or how much you make except if they are out for your money. Remember
that night is all about getting to know each other, what you enjoy,
your belief, personality and stuff.
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