She very demanding
Every man wants his woman to be happy
and satisfied but if you’ve got a girl with high taste then you’re in
trouble. She’s the type of girl that will always ask for one thing or
the other, complain about not having enough and always wants to go to
expensive places, travel and buy expensive things. A girl who’s
genuinely in love with you would rather be considerate about how you
spend your money and how best to cut down cost.
She’s materialistic and expensive
Its all about expensive things, designer
bags, shoes and gadgets. She tells you about the latest thing in town
and how all her friends have got it but she feels left out. Obviously
she wants you to buy it for her! Materialistic girls are shallow girls
who are only there during the good times. Their basis for a relationship
is money and to be with them you’ve got to have a big pocket. Some men
actually go for them just to conquer them and show them off as trophies.
If you’re looking for “love” then a materialistic girl is not for you.
Less concerned about your family
If your girl is not concerned about your
family or doesn’t ask after them but she’s more concerned about your
work and salary then you should double check. She really doesn’t want to
be emotionally attached because she doesn’t plan on being there in the
long run. She’s not planning or thinking about a future with you, its
more about now and what she can get. If you’re in a
relationship with a girl with similar traits then ensure you guys are
both on the same page and she wants a future with you.
She’s not sacrificial
These types of girls are not ready to
compromise or make sacrifices for you. You realize that you can’t tell
her “No” even in difficult times for the fear of loosing her. Every time
she asks you for something and you tell her about a challenge, she
threatens to leave you. If you’ve gotten to that stage then know that
she’s only after your pocket. Understanding and making sacrifices in a
relationship is a sign of love and support from your partner but if they
are not ready to make sacrifices then cut them off!
Always talking about her problems
Its from one problem to the other and
one bill to the other. Women have ways of extorting money from men and
that’s by cooking up stories. Her problems seem unending and because you
love her, you do not want to let her down. Today she tells you her
mother is sick, the next day its her creditor harassing her or one
incredible story. Everyone has got problems but when you see she has
made it a habit and she’s not independent, then that’s a sign.
Money and Sex become top priority
Money and sex, what a combo! While some
men have established that as the basis of the relationship from the
onset, others unknowingly enter one. You realize that all you both talk
about is money and sex. There’s no depth in the relationship, no care,
love, affection, and “communication”. All you both ever seem to talk
about are shallow things(temporal things). Every night together becomes a
night of negotiation and requests.
Interested in your bank account details
She wants to know everything! The
bank(s) you use, account details, last transaction, payday and who else
you’re sending money to. That seems to be the only thing she remembers
so that she can strategise on how to extort money from you. She gets
upset or edgy whenever you tell her about a friend you want to lend some
money to or helping out your family when in need. That’s because she
feels after giving out money to people, you won’t be willing to give her
enough money when she asks so she advices you against helping your
friends.
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