Have you noticed how some men are the quintessential
“Chick Magnets”, irrespective of where they go? These are
not always the best looking or even the richest of men; some
of them do not even fall under the broad category of being
handsome and have nothing more than a standard job. But
what they have is a way about them that always puts women
at ease, and draws their attention.
So if you have always longed to become a man who can walk
up to any woman and get her interested read on! Not only
will they make you a master at the art of seduction, they will
also earn you the reputation of being a rock star amongst
your friends!
Here are 6 tips on how to be a Ladies Man!
Tip #1: Confidence is the Key
It does not matter how good looking you are or whether or
not you drive a Ferrari. If you do not have the right
personality, women will simply not notice you in a room full
of charming men. One thing that every woman finds
irresistible is a man who exudes confidence; someone who
demands their attention because he truly thinks he deserves
it. When you walk in to a room, your personality should
create an impact that makes people want to turn their head
and check you out. This presence comes in many ways – the
way you present yourself and your body language being the
key.
Tip #2: Chivalry is Always Appreciated
If there is one thing about a man that never goes out of
style, it has got to be chivalry. Whether you want to impress
a “bad girl” or a prim and proper “diva”, every woman loves
to be treated like a lady. So do not try to hide your
chivalrous side, but play it to your advantage. There are tons
of ways for you to show off your good manners even if you
have just met a girl – always pull out a chair for the lady,
open the door for her, bring her a drink and even offer to
light her menthol cigarette.
Tip #3: Dress to Impress
Now let us accept a simple fact – women are superficial. And
for them to want to take notice of you and get to know you
enough to realize what a wonderful man you really are, you
have to first get their attention with nothing more than a
glance. And that is only possible if a woman likes what she
sees! Always dress smartly; it does not really matter how tall
you are or what your body shape is, dress in a way that
brings out your natural assets and intelligently masks your
problem areas. If you have trouble deciding what looks good
on you, seek assistance. You will find lots of articles that
explain how a man can be well-dressed, or walk in to a store
and ask for a personal shopper to assist you in picking out a
few smart outfits.
Tip #4: Find a Signature Fragrance
Every male in the
animal kingdom marks
off his territory with
his scent. And while we
humans do not really
do that, it is still true
that women are drawn
to a musky, heady
fragrance. To pick out
a signature perfume,
ask a female friend or
a store assistant to help you out. Do not be afraid to
mention that you are looking for a fragrance that attracts the
attention of females. Chances are you will find the perfect
perfume that best reflects your personality and will also
drive every woman you shake hands with crazy!
Tip #5: Cultivate a Devil-May-Care Attitude
Women are naturally attracted to risk-takers. Call it silly, but
that is just how it is. So if you really want to be a ladies’ man,
you cannot have an attitude that says “I am too practical”
but instead need to wear an attitude that says “I am ready to
try any new challenge”. With that being said, it does not
mean you cannot be practical and sensible in real life. All
you need is an attitude or presence about you that says you
are flexible, have clout and willing to bend the rules a bit.
Tip #6: Hone Your Conversational Skills
Well, it goes without saying that your presence, presentation
and body language can only go so far to keep a woman
enamored. But to keep the ladies interested in you after the
initial 15 minutes, you also need to be a great
conversationalist. A good sense of humor always works; try
to weave funny and smart one-liners in to the natural flow of
your conversation, rather than going all out to tell funny
jokes she may have already heard a 100 times. Also, listen
to women when they talk; it gives you an insight in to the
kind of things women like to talk about the most. And that
gives you clues on how to break ice when an awkward silent
moment creeps up!
In the end, keep it real. You might idolize Barney Stinson
from the popular sitcom “How I Met Your Mother”, but going
overboard to impress the ladies rarely ever works. What will
work though is the never-give-up attitude Barney portrays,
along with your natural charm that makes you look more
genuine.
Learn to be a natural by following these simple 6
tips to how to be a Ladies Man!
Good Luck!
We all need to laugh a little more!.
“Chick Magnets”, irrespective of where they go? These are
not always the best looking or even the richest of men; some
of them do not even fall under the broad category of being
handsome and have nothing more than a standard job. But
what they have is a way about them that always puts women
at ease, and draws their attention.
So if you have always longed to become a man who can walk
up to any woman and get her interested read on! Not only
will they make you a master at the art of seduction, they will
also earn you the reputation of being a rock star amongst
your friends!
Here are 6 tips on how to be a Ladies Man!
Tip #1: Confidence is the Key
It does not matter how good looking you are or whether or
not you drive a Ferrari. If you do not have the right
personality, women will simply not notice you in a room full
of charming men. One thing that every woman finds
irresistible is a man who exudes confidence; someone who
demands their attention because he truly thinks he deserves
it. When you walk in to a room, your personality should
create an impact that makes people want to turn their head
and check you out. This presence comes in many ways – the
way you present yourself and your body language being the
key.
Tip #2: Chivalry is Always Appreciated
If there is one thing about a man that never goes out of
style, it has got to be chivalry. Whether you want to impress
a “bad girl” or a prim and proper “diva”, every woman loves
to be treated like a lady. So do not try to hide your
chivalrous side, but play it to your advantage. There are tons
of ways for you to show off your good manners even if you
have just met a girl – always pull out a chair for the lady,
open the door for her, bring her a drink and even offer to
light her menthol cigarette.
Tip #3: Dress to Impress
Now let us accept a simple fact – women are superficial. And
for them to want to take notice of you and get to know you
enough to realize what a wonderful man you really are, you
have to first get their attention with nothing more than a
glance. And that is only possible if a woman likes what she
sees! Always dress smartly; it does not really matter how tall
you are or what your body shape is, dress in a way that
brings out your natural assets and intelligently masks your
problem areas. If you have trouble deciding what looks good
on you, seek assistance. You will find lots of articles that
explain how a man can be well-dressed, or walk in to a store
and ask for a personal shopper to assist you in picking out a
few smart outfits.
Tip #4: Find a Signature Fragrance
Every male in the
animal kingdom marks
off his territory with
his scent. And while we
humans do not really
do that, it is still true
that women are drawn
to a musky, heady
fragrance. To pick out
a signature perfume,
ask a female friend or
a store assistant to help you out. Do not be afraid to
mention that you are looking for a fragrance that attracts the
attention of females. Chances are you will find the perfect
perfume that best reflects your personality and will also
drive every woman you shake hands with crazy!
Tip #5: Cultivate a Devil-May-Care Attitude
Women are naturally attracted to risk-takers. Call it silly, but
that is just how it is. So if you really want to be a ladies’ man,
you cannot have an attitude that says “I am too practical”
but instead need to wear an attitude that says “I am ready to
try any new challenge”. With that being said, it does not
mean you cannot be practical and sensible in real life. All
you need is an attitude or presence about you that says you
are flexible, have clout and willing to bend the rules a bit.
Tip #6: Hone Your Conversational Skills
Well, it goes without saying that your presence, presentation
and body language can only go so far to keep a woman
enamored. But to keep the ladies interested in you after the
initial 15 minutes, you also need to be a great
conversationalist. A good sense of humor always works; try
to weave funny and smart one-liners in to the natural flow of
your conversation, rather than going all out to tell funny
jokes she may have already heard a 100 times. Also, listen
to women when they talk; it gives you an insight in to the
kind of things women like to talk about the most. And that
gives you clues on how to break ice when an awkward silent
moment creeps up!
In the end, keep it real. You might idolize Barney Stinson
from the popular sitcom “How I Met Your Mother”, but going
overboard to impress the ladies rarely ever works. What will
work though is the never-give-up attitude Barney portrays,
along with your natural charm that makes you look more
genuine.
Learn to be a natural by following these simple 6
tips to how to be a Ladies Man!
Good Luck!
We all need to laugh a little more!.
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