You are extremely pretty and intelligent and you seem to have all what it takes to charm any boy. But yet boys don't like you. And you believe to wonder why don't boy like you?
There are so many girls in this kind of situation. They are attractive and yet boys do not approaches them. Emily was beautiful but she had a problem. She said "Many boys showed interest in me but after a while they left." If you are a lady in this kind of situation what will you think?
Without been told, you should know the boys aren't the problem. You are your own problem. There are things a girl do that attract boys to her and also sends them away. So ladies read on to know how you can catch or attract the attention of a decent young man.
What you should do
# Work on your own heart and mind
You may light a boy so much and you want him. But when you are so quick to give him your heart, you risk the possibility of getting him. Many boys are simply interested in a lady's body. When they are done with the body they leave. A good decent boy will be after your personality and traits. He loves a girl who have good goals. Good goals involves knowing what you want to do with your life.
# Cultivate respect for others
Girls want to be loved and boys want to be respected. So when you develop respect for him and others you will make him attracted to you. Man value respect more than love. Respect is their ego. So if you are a lady who doesn't show respect for boys, you always talk down and challenge them, be sure that boys wont like you.
Being respectful doesn't mean you are weak or surrendering yourself. It doesn't mean you shouldn't have to your own opinion or express yourself. You can give opinion or express yourself but be mindful how you do so. This will determine if any young man will be attracted to you or will find you repulsive.
#Dress decently and have good hygiene
Appearance matters a lot. It is the first thing people notice about you. People use dressing and grooming to discern your inner thought and attitudes. Modest dressing sends a positive message while sloppy or provocative dressing sends negative message.
Your makeup counts! Heavy makeup send portrays you to be desperate for attention or even conceited. Revealing clothes attracts the bad boys and repels the good boys. Make sure your hair is well kept. Make sure you smell nice and never wear clothes that reveals cleavage or hairy armpit.
What you shouldn't do
#Do not flirt
Women are very influential than men which can either be for good or for bad. If you try to use such power of manipulation on every boy, you will be seen as a flirt. Many girls touch their shoulders or twirl their hair while having conversing with a boy. Doing this constantly will only make you appear to be a flirt. Also, touching constantly the arms of every boy you meet paint you as a flirt.
#Do not be clingy
As as you are not yet married you have no full right over anyone. So a boy has no full accountability toward you. Therefore never police him wanting to know where he goes, who he is calling etc. Never prevent him from associating with his male friends. Many girls do this. No boy whether good or bad will find you attractive if you are clingy or possessive.
Lastly never lower your standard just because you want to gain the attention or approval of a boyfriend. The honest truth is all boys cannot like but all boys finds you unattractive, then you should work on yourself.
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