How to Get a Girlfriend

Getting a Girlfriend is one big thing most Guys hunger for. The truth is that most guys don't know exactly how to go about it. I spoke to some women about the ways guys were able to win their hearts, Surprisingly, They got real, they got raw, and they were very honest with me. Below are 11 ways to get a Girlfriend Fast!

1. Avoid being afraid to fail.  If you see a beautiful girl, go and talk to her. Express your intentions right away. 

2. Be kind.. Care for Her. You need to show that you care, deeply, about her health and welfare.

3. Pretend to be someone else. Don't get me wrong oh.. Its good to be yourself while trying to get a girl... But trust me, it's not bad to stray from that if it means getting someone's attention.

4. Don't give yourself time to make excuses. When you see a beautiful girl, don't make excuses like 'she probably has a boyfriend', 'she is on the phone' or 'she is busy'.  The worse thing she may do is to say is 'NO' and walk away. If she says 'NO' you have to try again and again to get good at this.

5. Pretend to have the Same Interests. There's nothing wrong with pretending you're interested in something… even if you have no clue of what it is. What matters is that you get what you want. 

6. Play hard to get. This is the hard part cos you get to act like you're not interested while deep down your heart, you want her badly.. But these helps to make her value you more. Girls value men who give them tough time. 

7. Make her laugh. Girls love guys who have a good sense of humor, and the key to having a good sense of humor is to be free and not always self conscious. 

8. Flirt with her. Instead of saying something obvious like, “You have pretty eyes”, say something like “I love the way your blouse displays your beautiful shoulders”.  Complimenting her shoulders really works wonders!

Remember everything she says and then casually bring it up again later.

Try getting to know her instead of trying to get her number.

While flirting with her, your goal should be to make her feel good. If you flirt to get something like her number, then you won’t get anywhere. But if you make her feel good about herself, you will get her number and other lovely things.

9. Go on a date with her. Once you've met a girl that you feel you truly love, you need her to like you. If you've done the above correctly, she's probably already interested, so now you just need to seal the deal. Ask her out for a date or lunch.

Be careful not to ask her out over chat or text. Give her a call or ask her in person. 

10. Propose to her. Ask her to be your girlfriend. Once you are pretty sure that there's strong mutual attraction, ask her to be your girlfriend. You can propose in a big, creative way or simply ask her in person.

 

WARNING: 

—Don't ever propose to her over text or chat or Phone call. Proposing over the phone can be allowed only if she is very far from you. I mean in another country or state. 

—Don't change your Facebook relationship status or refer to her as your girlfriend until she responds.

11. Have Patience. Don't rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the girlfriend role, which will cause pain for both of you.

As you can see, there is no strict method to getting a girlfriend. It just takes a combination of being yourself, and not being yourself, a couple of white lies��, some caring, some Love text messages and patience.