The best relationships are founded on a very plain-
leveled platform, where both parties are loyal to each
other. Ladies, better wake up and get your running
shoes ready for these type of men that are trying to
take away your joy. Don’t let their fine face and body
deceive you from seeing their true colors. Everyone has
personal flaws, but these kind of guys are just too much
to handle because of their overwhelming and draining
personalities.
They behave in such a manner because of experiences from
their past relationships, poor advice from friends and what
they’re generally used to when dating.
These guys can make a situation much more difficult than
necessary because of their poor behaviour and ridiculously
high expectations of a woman when in a relationship. That is
highly unacceptable and shouldn’t be used as an excuse.
Get out your pen and paper to take notes. Down below are
my top 5 types of guys to run away from before you let your
heart get in the way.
1. The Miser-
Now, I definitely can’t stand a miser! If you notice that your
man is always clinching onto his wallet and accounts for
every naira spent at every second when he’s with you,
please find your way out.
This type of guy is too worried about how much of a burden
you will be to his bank account and he is focused on what he
can do to limit his expenses on you.
I’m not saying that he should spend money vicariously and
go bankrupt, but he shouldn’t display such a frugal character
so boldly in front of his woman. It’s highly unflattering and
disruptive.
2. The stalker-
This type of guy wants you all to himself and makes it his
daily mission to track your movement. He will check on you
24/7!
He keeps texting you by the hour on the hour, makes
unexpected house visits and might even want you to call him
every night before you go to bed ( how creepy!?!).
Ladies, I understand that we want a guy who gives us his full
attention, but haba nah? We don’t want a leech. He probably
doesn’t like ‘sharing’ you with anyone else, including your
family members and friends.
If you tolerate this behavior, he will eventually not let you
out of his sight without a fight. Trust me when I say, you
don’t want to turn into the next headliner on CNN.
3. The CEO of home cleaning services-
These guys are seriously suffering from ‘mummy fever’ and
want to put their ladies to work quickly. They want you to
start cleaning, cooking and washing for them very early into
the relationship. When did you turn into his personal
Martha Stewart? The answer is never, so don’t you dare
accept that role.
Ladies should be free to cater to their men, but don’t allow
them to take advantage of you simply because you
potentially see a ‘future’ with him. Something you suddenly
start in a relationship as a courtesy can turn into a
permanent expectation.
4. The Mr. Know It All-
Guys like this can be so annoying and ultimately demeaning.
They want to always be noticed in public for their boisterous
character and witty sense of humor.
They must always prove a point to show off their
‘wisdom’ (even when it’s unnecessary). They’ll talk over you
and ignore your suggestions which in turn will make you feel
irrelevant.
These guys know how to bring down a lady’s self-esteem and
ruin a beautiful night out by unconsciously making you feel
invisible. Mr. Know It All would rather have you just as an
accessory on his arm.
5. The Super Hottie-
Ladies, we are constantly reminded not to date a guy who is
more physically attractive than we are because of our pride
and I completely agree.
Some of you may wonder how one can determine that a
man is better looking than a lady. The super hottie makes it
very easy for you.
I’ll explain; this type of man loves the mirror more than you
and takes excessive amounts of time to groom himself for
the public eye.
Now, when you look at him and feel as though you have to
compensate by slapping on huge amounts of makeup,
always feel uneasy about your outfit and if he gets more
‘hollers’ than you on a regular basis, he is finer than you!
Who wants to walk out with a man who gets more attention
than them? Definitely not me hunny! You will never be 100%
comfortable around him. If this is your case, then you need
to sharply evaluate this situation. Better do your best to
notice this such behavior from him early in your
relationship because if not, you will regret it later..
leveled platform, where both parties are loyal to each
other. Ladies, better wake up and get your running
shoes ready for these type of men that are trying to
take away your joy. Don’t let their fine face and body
deceive you from seeing their true colors. Everyone has
personal flaws, but these kind of guys are just too much
to handle because of their overwhelming and draining
personalities.
They behave in such a manner because of experiences from
their past relationships, poor advice from friends and what
they’re generally used to when dating.
These guys can make a situation much more difficult than
necessary because of their poor behaviour and ridiculously
high expectations of a woman when in a relationship. That is
highly unacceptable and shouldn’t be used as an excuse.
Get out your pen and paper to take notes. Down below are
my top 5 types of guys to run away from before you let your
heart get in the way.
1. The Miser-
Now, I definitely can’t stand a miser! If you notice that your
man is always clinching onto his wallet and accounts for
every naira spent at every second when he’s with you,
please find your way out.
This type of guy is too worried about how much of a burden
you will be to his bank account and he is focused on what he
can do to limit his expenses on you.
I’m not saying that he should spend money vicariously and
go bankrupt, but he shouldn’t display such a frugal character
so boldly in front of his woman. It’s highly unflattering and
disruptive.
2. The stalker-
This type of guy wants you all to himself and makes it his
daily mission to track your movement. He will check on you
24/7!
He keeps texting you by the hour on the hour, makes
unexpected house visits and might even want you to call him
every night before you go to bed ( how creepy!?!).
Ladies, I understand that we want a guy who gives us his full
attention, but haba nah? We don’t want a leech. He probably
doesn’t like ‘sharing’ you with anyone else, including your
family members and friends.
If you tolerate this behavior, he will eventually not let you
out of his sight without a fight. Trust me when I say, you
don’t want to turn into the next headliner on CNN.
3. The CEO of home cleaning services-
These guys are seriously suffering from ‘mummy fever’ and
want to put their ladies to work quickly. They want you to
start cleaning, cooking and washing for them very early into
the relationship. When did you turn into his personal
Martha Stewart? The answer is never, so don’t you dare
accept that role.
Ladies should be free to cater to their men, but don’t allow
them to take advantage of you simply because you
potentially see a ‘future’ with him. Something you suddenly
start in a relationship as a courtesy can turn into a
permanent expectation.
4. The Mr. Know It All-
Guys like this can be so annoying and ultimately demeaning.
They want to always be noticed in public for their boisterous
character and witty sense of humor.
They must always prove a point to show off their
‘wisdom’ (even when it’s unnecessary). They’ll talk over you
and ignore your suggestions which in turn will make you feel
irrelevant.
These guys know how to bring down a lady’s self-esteem and
ruin a beautiful night out by unconsciously making you feel
invisible. Mr. Know It All would rather have you just as an
accessory on his arm.
5. The Super Hottie-
Ladies, we are constantly reminded not to date a guy who is
more physically attractive than we are because of our pride
and I completely agree.
Some of you may wonder how one can determine that a
man is better looking than a lady. The super hottie makes it
very easy for you.
I’ll explain; this type of man loves the mirror more than you
and takes excessive amounts of time to groom himself for
the public eye.
Now, when you look at him and feel as though you have to
compensate by slapping on huge amounts of makeup,
always feel uneasy about your outfit and if he gets more
‘hollers’ than you on a regular basis, he is finer than you!
Who wants to walk out with a man who gets more attention
than them? Definitely not me hunny! You will never be 100%
comfortable around him. If this is your case, then you need
to sharply evaluate this situation. Better do your best to
notice this such behavior from him early in your
relationship because if not, you will regret it later..
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