6 Advices Every Woman in a Relationship Must Know

I believe that women are beautiful. They go through a lot in life and yet they are still always compromising and always trying to facilitate others. Some men complain that women are confused and complicated, but I personally think that such men do not deserve women at all. If you are a woman, and you are in a relationship, here a few advices that you must know:

6. Give him a chance to talk.

Most men have temper issues, but you must know that most of them cannot stay angry for long. Some people get angry a lot, but that anger gets flushed down very easily. Also, it indicates that the other person is honest, and instead of keeping grudges, they express. You must know that if your boyfriend gets angry, you need to give him a chance to talk. Hear him out. Hear out what he has to say and let him express himself completely. Once he is done talking, his anger would abate, and he will be ready to hear you out. 

5. Do not bring him down.

Do you know that the worst way to bring down a person is by bringing up their past? Someone’s past is their collection of mistakes, experiences and a few failed relationships. If you keep bringing it up, you remind the other person of how he hasn’t really done much in life. If you’re mad at him, and you think that you have to scream at them, do not bring up the past. Always check their comfort level with it. For some men, it is easier to talk about their past with a woman who they trust a lot and have been together with for a while. 

4. Do not force him to talk.

There are a very few examples of talkative men. Men do not enjoy talking a lot. However, don’t assume that they do not want to talk to you or that they are not interested in you anymore. This is something I learnt from Grey’s Anatomy. Most of the times, they just don’t know what to say so they stay quiet instead. It would be rather annoying if you would push them to talk. 

3. The silent treatment.

As a woman, let me be very honest with you: this is my favourite. When they have done something that you dislike, you must know that screaming and shouting is not the right way to go about. Give him the silent treatment. Stop talking to him. Make a face, and he will soon realize that something is wrong. They will come to you and then you can make them realize their mistake. This avoids excessive drama because for some relationships, fights are a nasty affair. 

2. Motivate him.

Men like to appear self-sufficient. They do not want anyone to know of their weaknesses. However, you must know that deep down in their heart, they are scared too. They are scared of failing and losing people just as much as you are. As a result, motivate him. Show him that you trust him, and you know his full potential. Convince him that you are sure that he is capable of doing wonders. Believe me, this will boost his morale so much more. 

1. Do not suffocate him.

When you are with a guy, do not make him feel that you are a liability. You have to give him space. You have to let him have his guy time. You do not have to fuss about how he is with his friends this weekend, and you have to be alone. Do not be alone. Spend some time with your friends as well. He deserves his space, and so do you.