6 Advices Every Woman in a Relationship Must Know

I believe that women are beautiful. They go through a lot in life and yet they are still always compromising and always trying to facilitate others. Some men complain that women are confused and complicated, but I personally think that such men do not deserve women at all. If you are a woman, and you are in a relationship, here a few advices that you must know:

6. Give him a chance to talk.

Most men have temper issues, but you must know that most of them cannot stay angry for long. Some people get angry a lot, but that anger gets flushed down very easily. Also, it indicates that the other person is honest, and instead of keeping grudges, they express. You must know that if your boyfriend gets angry, you need to give him a chance to talk. Hear him out. Hear out what he has to say and let him express himself completely. Once he is done talking, his anger would abate, and he will be ready to hear you out. 

5. Do not bring him down.

Do you know that the worst way to bring down a person is by bringing up their past? Someone’s past is their collection of mistakes, experiences and a few failed relationships. If you keep bringing it up, you remind the other person of how he hasn’t really done much in life. If you’re mad at him, and you think that you have to scream at them, do not bring up the past. Always check their comfort level with it. For some men, it is easier to talk about their past with a woman who they trust a lot and have been together with for a while. 

4. Do not force him to talk.

There are a very few examples of talkative men. Men do not enjoy talking a lot. However, don’t assume that they do not want to talk to you or that they are not interested in you anymore. This is something I learnt from Grey’s Anatomy. Most of the times, they just don’t know what to say so they stay quiet instead. It would be rather annoying if you would push them to talk. 

3. The silent treatment.

As a woman, let me be very honest with you: this is my favourite. When they have done something that you dislike, you must know that screaming and shouting is not the right way to go about. Give him the silent treatment. Stop talking to him. Make a face, and he will soon realize that something is wrong. They will come to you and then you can make them realize their mistake. This avoids excessive drama because for some relationships, fights are a nasty affair. 

2. Motivate him.

Men like to appear self-sufficient. They do not want anyone to know of their weaknesses. However, you must know that deep down in their heart, they are scared too. They are scared of failing and losing people just as much as you are. As a result, motivate him. Show him that you trust him, and you know his full potential. Convince him that you are sure that he is capable of doing wonders. Believe me, this will boost his morale so much more. 

1. Do not suffocate him.

When you are with a guy, do not make him feel that you are a liability. You have to give him space. You have to let him have his guy time. You do not have to fuss about how he is with his friends this weekend, and you have to be alone. Do not be alone. Spend some time with your friends as well. He deserves his space, and so do you.

Best Happy Birthday Message, Special Happy Birthday Text To Friends And Loved Ones

Here is a collection of our happy birthday messages which you can send to your friends, loved ones, boyfriend, girlfriend and more.
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*Birthday is the most special day in one’s life, enjoy it to the fullest.

*The sun is shining more brightly to wish you happy birthday.

*Wish you an outstanding and fabulous happy birthday.

*Happy birthday to the most beautiful person on the earth.

*Let your happy birthday be full of all the colors of the rainbow.

*Age hasn’t spoiled you. Happy Birthday.

*I hope that today is the beginning of a great year for you. Happy Birthday.

*A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are – even if you are getting older. Happy Birthday.

*A great friend and a happy birthday, that is what you are and what I wish for you.

*A happy birthday to a person who in dog years would already be dead.

*A lighter? We’re going to need a flamethrower to light up your candles.

*A true friend remembers your birthday but not your age. Happy Birthday.

*Age is a number, but life is the calculator.

*Another year has passed and as you celebrate your birthday this year and turn a year older. May you have all that you wish for come true. Have a happy birthday!

*Another year has passed but rather than count the years, let me just say how much we count on you. Happy Birthday.

*Another year older. Well at least we are growing up to be what we should be – the two hottest babes around. Happy Birthday Gorgeous.

*As King David said, May you prosper wherever you go and in whatever you do. Happy Birthday.

*Being young is a privilege. Being attractive a genetic gift. Being cool, that is all you. Happy Birthday.

*Best birthday wishes ever, yeah that is my birthday wish for you.

*Best wishes for a happy day filled with love and laughter. Happy Birthday.

*Birthday greeting, birthday greeting, generic birthday greeting. Sorry but that was all I could afford.

*Birthdays are special occasions and they call for special celebrations. Let us celebrate you birthday today!

*Birthdays come and go, so you need to Go Go Go. Happy Birthday.

*Blowing out another candle should mean that you have enjoyed another year and made the world a better place than when you blew out fewer candles. Make every day and every candle count. Happy Birthday.

*Celebrate your birthday today. Celebrate being Happy every day.

*Celebrate your birthday, go have lots of fun, everybody should enjoy it and have tons of fun. Happy Birthday.

*Congratulations on being even more experienced. I’m not sure what you learned this year but I hope that you had fun. Happy Bday.

*Do you know what people in China do on their birthday? They get older too. Happy Birthday.

*Do you want to look back in life and think about what a great life you’ve had? Then you better start working towards it right away! Happy Birthday!

*Don’t count the years, count the wishes and all the cheers.

*Don’t look for a heaven in the sky, try making one here.

*For all the advances in medicine, there is still no cure for the common birthday.

*For your birthday, I just want to say; I hope you can see, how special you are to me. Happy birthday my love!

*Forever young and good-looking. That’s all i wish you for.

*Forget how long you’ve lived. Look at how much you’ve accomplished until now and how far you’ve got to go. Happy Birthday!

*Friends may come and go, but birthdays accumulate.

*Get up. Stand up. Stand up for your birthday fun.

*Good things happen when you just go for it. Happy Birthday.

6 signs you are not with the right person

A relationship is all about compatibility and happiness. There is no point in staying with someone if they make you miserable or they make you feel worthless. Consider the following signs and if you can relate to any one, you should consider where you are going.

6. They constantly remind you of the past.

Some people have it in their nature that they just cannot tolerate someone else’s happiness. They could be just jealous of your happiness or they are extremely frustrated over their lives. They will remind you of your past and even when you’ve become better, they will remind you of how you were once a horrible person.
Do you really think it is all worth it if he or she has to bring you down to feel good?

5. They compulsively lie to you.

Trust is one of the very important characteristics of a good relationship and what good is it if he or she lies to you? Imagine being left out of details or not knowing what really happened because they are trying to save themselves by lying to you. Do not live with such a person because no matter how minor it is, a lie is a lie.

4. They don’t respect your space.

There is no point of staying in a relationship when you’re are always on the giving side. If you feel that he or she comes to you when they have time, and not when you need them, then you really need to reconsider things. If you are not someone’s priority, how do you expect them to treat you specially? If they can’t take out time for you or be there when you need them, there is no point in dragging a one-sided relationship.

3. They don’t respect your ambitions.

They always say that if you can dream something, you can do it. Your partner should be the person who supports you on this. He or she should be the one who constantly motivates you to achieve big in life and if they remind you of how you dream too big or that your ambitions are not within you reach, let them go.

2. They suffocate you.

Being with someone doesn’t mean that they are entitled to keep you in a locked cage because that is not the point of a relationship. You feel like you are constantly put down and that you don’t have freedom. If you are scared of expressing yourself freely because they will judge you then get out. If they can’t love you for who you are, do they really love you?

1. They don’t believe in you.

Everyone has the power and ability to do a lot of things given that there are no negative forces constantly bringing you down. If you are constantly being reminded of how horrible you are and how you’re far from what you think of yourself, you will fail to do things that are simple.

HOW TO SELL YOURSELF IN 30 SECONDS AND LEAVE PEOPLE WANTING MORE

Whether you’re in a job interview, networking at a cocktail party or happen to run into Warren Buffett in the elevator, quickly persuading others to think you’re the most interesting person they’ll meet is no easy task. Businessinsider.com offers steps to crafting the perfect elevator pitch.

Know exactly what you want to achieve…

Your elevator pitch should answer three questions:
√Who are you?
√What do you do?
√Where do you want to go, or
√what are you looking for?

You need to know exactly what you want to achieve or no one can help you get there.
Take your résumé and LinkedIn profile and go through it thoroughly. If you’re unemployed, focus on where you want to go and what you want to do.

•Bullet point it
After studying your résumé and LinkedIn profile, write down four bullet points that explain why you’re great. Discuss your work history, background, skills, accomplishments, and goals. Leave out any irrelevant details that take away from your core message.

•Tell a story
People love stories, so tell them a story. It also makes it easier for others to remember you later on.
Self-improvement guru Dale Carnegie said in his book, Public Speaking and Influencing Men in Business, that our minds are essentially ‘associate machines,’ which means we remember things better when there’s a story or association attached to the subject. In other words, if you want people to remember you, tell them a story, and make sure it’s good.

•Eliminate jargon
You need to be able to explain what you do and who you are in a way that appeals to most people. This means avoiding acronyms or terminology that wouldn’t be understood by someone outside of your industry.
Dumbing down complex ideas is a ‘real art.’ A good strategy is to imagine explaining what you do to your parents and using a similar formula in your elevator pitch. Crafting your pitch in layman’s terms is especially critical for those in accounting, finance, and technology.
Make sure it invites conversation
After telling your story, the listener needs to be left wanting more. Is your story compelling enough to do this? If not, you need to change your pitch

•Time yourself
While practicing your pitch, you should time yourself to make sure you can tell your story in 30 seconds. If you can’t, cut down details and try again.

•Record yourself on video
You need to know what you look like to others while you’re telling your story. Are you interesting? Are you believable? People will come to their own conclusions while listening to you, so make sure you give off a good impression. Relax, act natural, and get comfortable with your story…

•Pitch it to your friends and colleagues
After you’ve got your story down, practice your elevator pitch with friends and colleagues. Ask them to give you feedback. Ask them what you should do to make it better. Keep practicing and tweaking your pitch until it’s natural for you to say aloud and convincing to the listener.…