6 Advices Every Woman in a Relationship Must Know

I believe that women are beautiful. They go through a lot in life and yet they are still always compromising and always trying to facilitate others. Some men complain that women are confused and complicated, but I personally think that such men do not deserve women at all. If you are a woman, and you are in a relationship, here a few advices that you must know:

6. Give him a chance to talk.

Most men have temper issues, but you must know that most of them cannot stay angry for long. Some people get angry a lot, but that anger gets flushed down very easily. Also, it indicates that the other person is honest, and instead of keeping grudges, they express. You must know that if your boyfriend gets angry, you need to give him a chance to talk. Hear him out. Hear out what he has to say and let him express himself completely. Once he is done talking, his anger would abate, and he will be ready to hear you out. 

5. Do not bring him down.

Do you know that the worst way to bring down a person is by bringing up their past? Someone’s past is their collection of mistakes, experiences and a few failed relationships. If you keep bringing it up, you remind the other person of how he hasn’t really done much in life. If you’re mad at him, and you think that you have to scream at them, do not bring up the past. Always check their comfort level with it. For some men, it is easier to talk about their past with a woman who they trust a lot and have been together with for a while. 

4. Do not force him to talk.

There are a very few examples of talkative men. Men do not enjoy talking a lot. However, don’t assume that they do not want to talk to you or that they are not interested in you anymore. This is something I learnt from Grey’s Anatomy. Most of the times, they just don’t know what to say so they stay quiet instead. It would be rather annoying if you would push them to talk. 

3. The silent treatment.

As a woman, let me be very honest with you: this is my favourite. When they have done something that you dislike, you must know that screaming and shouting is not the right way to go about. Give him the silent treatment. Stop talking to him. Make a face, and he will soon realize that something is wrong. They will come to you and then you can make them realize their mistake. This avoids excessive drama because for some relationships, fights are a nasty affair. 

2. Motivate him.

Men like to appear self-sufficient. They do not want anyone to know of their weaknesses. However, you must know that deep down in their heart, they are scared too. They are scared of failing and losing people just as much as you are. As a result, motivate him. Show him that you trust him, and you know his full potential. Convince him that you are sure that he is capable of doing wonders. Believe me, this will boost his morale so much more. 

1. Do not suffocate him.

When you are with a guy, do not make him feel that you are a liability. You have to give him space. You have to let him have his guy time. You do not have to fuss about how he is with his friends this weekend, and you have to be alone. Do not be alone. Spend some time with your friends as well. He deserves his space, and so do you.

9 Signs You’re in very Bad Relationship (MUST READ)

Being in a relationship means being with someone who loves you and cares for you. You might not need materialistic expression of that in form of gifts and dinners but the support always keeps a person going. However, if you are in a bad relationship, there is no benefit in that. Here are 9 signs of a relationship that is bringing you down:

9. No space.

He is suffocating you by constantly standing on your head. You cannot go out with your friends, you cannot be without him and you’ve to report to him for whatever you do. If you don’t have space, you will get sick of him sooner or later. So you might rethink what do you want to do in future.

8. You have lost your identity.

You have been fulfilling his demands for so long that you have forgotten that you are a person too. You cannot even change an apartment without his consent because it might be far away from his place. You can’t follow your dreams and ambitions because it is getting in the way of his dreams and goals.

7. You’re always tired.

Whether it is the love or the general chores, you are constantly being exhausted. There has come a point when you feel that you are no longer a person but a giving machine. You don’t deserve that. Cut yourself some slack and either share the responsibilities or leave him.

6. You doubt you’re both compatible.

You feel like you both are not even compatible. Your ideas don’t match or you both can’t seem to agree on most of the things. The constant fights and arguments are not what makes a relationship special. If you both are not compatible then there is no point of a relationship at all.

5. You are constantly asking yourself if you want this.

Do you want to stay committed now? Or you in for a long-term relationship? Do you realise that you will eventually get married and have children? If these questions are scaring you off then don’t waste the other person’s time. Don’t just flirt and pass time. Let them go.

4. You both have different priorities.

If you both have different priorities then it is possible that your relationship will not work out. You might have started realizing this by now. Understand that no matter how much you love each other, a lot of compromises will eventually break you both apart.

3. It doesn’t feel like love.

There are two things that can bring someone into a relationship. It can either be lust or love. Understand that. If the other person is in just to satisfy his needs then he can go and find a hooker. You don’t have to compromise on that.

2. The spark is gone.

It feels like you guys are an old married couple instead of young people in love. Things have become in such a way that you guys don’t even feel like a young couple among your friends. A young person in love is fresh, happy and over the moon. There’s this constant spark in your eyes. If your life is as dull as it always was, reassess!

1. You enjoy more with other people.

He is just boring. Nothing he does is fun. If his idea of fun is the Super Sunday Barclays Premier League game and you have zero interest in football, then don’t just with him and watch the game. If he cannot do the things you like with him and imposes his ideas on you, it’s time to part way.
Remember, there is no point in suffering out of the fear of unknown! Stay happy and spread happiness.

Best Happy Birthday Message, Special Happy Birthday Text To Friends And Loved Ones

Here is a collection of our happy birthday messages which you can send to your friends, loved ones, boyfriend, girlfriend and more.
Please feel free to use them and do share using the share buttons at the end of the post.

*Birthday is the most special day in one’s life, enjoy it to the fullest.

*The sun is shining more brightly to wish you happy birthday.

*Wish you an outstanding and fabulous happy birthday.

*Happy birthday to the most beautiful person on the earth.

*Let your happy birthday be full of all the colors of the rainbow.

*Age hasn’t spoiled you. Happy Birthday.

*I hope that today is the beginning of a great year for you. Happy Birthday.

*A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are – even if you are getting older. Happy Birthday.

*A great friend and a happy birthday, that is what you are and what I wish for you.

*A happy birthday to a person who in dog years would already be dead.

*A lighter? We’re going to need a flamethrower to light up your candles.

*A true friend remembers your birthday but not your age. Happy Birthday.

*Age is a number, but life is the calculator.

*Another year has passed and as you celebrate your birthday this year and turn a year older. May you have all that you wish for come true. Have a happy birthday!

*Another year has passed but rather than count the years, let me just say how much we count on you. Happy Birthday.

*Another year older. Well at least we are growing up to be what we should be – the two hottest babes around. Happy Birthday Gorgeous.

*As King David said, May you prosper wherever you go and in whatever you do. Happy Birthday.

*Being young is a privilege. Being attractive a genetic gift. Being cool, that is all you. Happy Birthday.

*Best birthday wishes ever, yeah that is my birthday wish for you.

*Best wishes for a happy day filled with love and laughter. Happy Birthday.

*Birthday greeting, birthday greeting, generic birthday greeting. Sorry but that was all I could afford.

*Birthdays are special occasions and they call for special celebrations. Let us celebrate you birthday today!

*Birthdays come and go, so you need to Go Go Go. Happy Birthday.

*Blowing out another candle should mean that you have enjoyed another year and made the world a better place than when you blew out fewer candles. Make every day and every candle count. Happy Birthday.

*Celebrate your birthday today. Celebrate being Happy every day.

*Celebrate your birthday, go have lots of fun, everybody should enjoy it and have tons of fun. Happy Birthday.

*Congratulations on being even more experienced. I’m not sure what you learned this year but I hope that you had fun. Happy Bday.

*Do you know what people in China do on their birthday? They get older too. Happy Birthday.

*Do you want to look back in life and think about what a great life you’ve had? Then you better start working towards it right away! Happy Birthday!

*Don’t count the years, count the wishes and all the cheers.

*Don’t look for a heaven in the sky, try making one here.

*For all the advances in medicine, there is still no cure for the common birthday.

*For your birthday, I just want to say; I hope you can see, how special you are to me. Happy birthday my love!

*Forever young and good-looking. That’s all i wish you for.

*Forget how long you’ve lived. Look at how much you’ve accomplished until now and how far you’ve got to go. Happy Birthday!

*Friends may come and go, but birthdays accumulate.

*Get up. Stand up. Stand up for your birthday fun.

*Good things happen when you just go for it. Happy Birthday.

Romantic Valentines Messages for your Loved ones

Within you I lose myself…
Without you I find myself
Wanting to be lost again.

If u wanna know how much I miss you,
Try to catch rain drops, The ones u catch is how much u miss me,and the ones you miss is how much I miss
Memories sometimes behave in a crazy way.

They leave u alone, when u are in a crowd & when u are alone they stand along with u like a crowd.

Your absence has gone through meLike thread through a needleEverything I do is stitched with its color.

In School, They Taught Me That
1 hour = 60 Mints
1 Min = 60 Secs
But They Never Told Me That
1 Sec Without You = 100 Years:

Life is so short, so fast the lone hours fly,
We ought to be together, you and I.

Miss you every hour and every moment of everyday sweetheart
When the sky looks blue “I Miss u” when the dreams come true “I Miss u” when the flowers are covered with dew “I Miss u” when the day comes new “I Miss u”
I dropped a tear in the ocean.

The day you find it is the day I will stop missing you.

I heard someone whisper your name, but when I turned to see who it was, I noticed it was alone, then realized it was my heart beat telling me “I MISS U”
In the hope to meet
Shortly again, and make our absence sweet.

Missing you gets easier every day because even though it’s one day further from the last time we saw each other, it’s one day closer to the next time we will.

6 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Feel Special this Valentine

All over the world, Valentine’s Day is celebrated as a day of love and passion and every year partners think of innovative ways to please their loved one. Your worry is legitimate. It is one special day for you, your boyfriend and the relationship, you two are involved in, so make the best use out of it. You want to make him feel special? We tell you how:


Compliment him
You think only we love compliments? No. Men love to be complemented, probably more than we do. He knows the importance of his day and I am sure he has bought a new suit for the day. When you see him, compliment him. Appreciate him for his efforts to look good. Just do not stop admiring the present he gives you. One more thing, JUST DO NOT LET YOUR EYES OF HIM. Trust me, this will make his day.



Act like a lady
Yes, we know you have been a tomboy all your life, but just this one day, act like a lady. Talk softly and talk less, and think before you utter any words out of your mouth. Being a lady, does not want you to act rich, but act decent. Do not forget those courtesy words and keep your attitude tamed. Be polite and ensure that your body posture is accurate. Do not worry, it is just one day we are talking about.


Look your best
Eyes are the windows to the heart, right? Then, on this special day, look nothing but your best. Hit the parlor if needed. Put on your best dress, have the best hair out fit, and do not forget your heels. The parlor will take care of your makeup. Dress up so that he fails to look at anything, but you. This will also help him realize, that you wish to spend your efforts, to look good for him. After today, your boyfriend should fall in love with you all over again.



Shower him with gifts
Those NIKE shoes that he always wanted or the overpriced Rolex, that he has been eyeing for since ages, gift him what he has been wanting. Men do not express much, but they always seek out for presents from their partner, and seem to treasure them forever. Throw him with multiple presents. Do not worry about the money for his smile and happiness will be totally worth it. However, be very choosy. An inappropriate gift might ruin the day.


Do not fail to express your love
This is the day, woman; this is the day, when you need to express all the love and affection, you have for your boyfriend. This is the day, when he needs to know, how he makes you feel. This is the day, when he needs to be reminded of all the butterflies, he has ever given you. This is the day, when all the words, beautifully put up together, would mean the world to him. Make this day count, make this day special.


Lots of surprises
Expecting surprises from him? How about you throw him some, for a change? How about a match in the stadium with him? How about ordering his favorite Italian, instead of the continental you like? Let him be on the receiving side this time to enjoy all the favors. A surprise would do no harm, right?

5 Things She Wants From You on This Valentine’s Day

A lot of girls are said to be expressive. It is true to some extent because women tend to share whatever is in their heart. They don’t like to hide stuff. However, there comes a point in the relationship when the two of you become different from you were in the start. From being that talkative girl who told you all, she is now someone who doesn’t talk about what she wants at all times. There are a few things she wants from you and I believe that Valentine’s Day is a good way to start for those things:

•Make her your best friend•
If you ever ask a woman what she really wants from a relationship, then the first thing she will say is that she wants to be his best friend. Our best friend is someone who sees our truest side and knows our most difficult side as well. She wants to be that person for you because she wants to be your favorite secret keeper. She wants to be the first person you call when you want to celebrate your achievement. She wants to be the first person you call to cry when you want to cry over something. She wants to be that special person to you.



•Listen to her•
A lot of time, women complain that her guy doesn’t listen to her. It is true that after some time, you start feeling like all she does is talk about useless things. You feel like she annoys you with her constant irrational talk that is doing no one any good. However, have you ever noticed that when she talks her heart out to you, even if it is some stupid story that she is telling you, she is glowing. She has this shine in her eyes because she is excited over it. You should at least have the audacity to listen to her. She wants you to pay attention to her. If you are annoyed, just let her know that now is not the good time to talk and she will stop.


•Talk to her•
If you think that all she wants from you is to listen to her, you couldn’t be anymore wrong. Just as much as she wants to be heard, she also wants to hear from you. People often joke about how a man’s day can go ‘fine’ when he goes to work out while for a woman, she has a million things to share even if she was at home the whole day. Women want exclusivity. They want to hear from the guy and they like being the only person they talk to. So take out time and talk to her. Share how your day went and she will feel great.



•Share your feelings with her•
She wants to hear from you in a sense that she wants to know your feelings. You might have been wronged by a few women in your life. You have trust issues now and you have trouble talking your heart out because you feel that she might manipulate you. You have to convince yourself that this is the woman you love and that she deserves to hear all about you. So gather up courage and start with baby steps. Talk your heart out with her.


•Love carelessly•
Men are always careful. It is funny how they can love with caution as well. She wants the opposite. She wants you to love her carelessly. She wants you to share your heart out with her without having any fears or doubts. If you really have trust issues with her, let her know. You should never be with a person that you have trouble trusting.

5 Ways to Be a Good Husband

A lot of women complain how good husbands are a myth. Women always think that they are the ones who compromise and make effort in a marriage. Perhaps these generalizations affect the way people react to one another a lot. To make sure you wife doesn’t say this, a few practical steps can be taken. You do not have to shower her with rose petals every morning or give her massages to make sure she says that. Just do a few of the following, and watch the magic:

5. Give her a love session every day.

This is perhaps my secret way to maintain a healthy relationship. No matter how busy or occupied the two of you are, take out at least 15-20 minutes for each other every day. It could be any time of the day. I prefer it before sleeping though. Spend time with your wife. Give her all your attention. Talk to her, hear about her day and pamper her. When she goes to sleep happy, she will have an even better day in the morning. 

4. Let go of fights and arguments.

My father used to say that if a married couple tell you that they do not fight, they are lying. When two people are together, it is impossible for them to stay so without disagreeing over something. There are always conflicts and arguments. This does not mean that the two people keep fighting and screaming at each other all the time. However, a normal level of fights are okay as long as you let go of them. Do not keep grudges in your heart and do not say hurtful things to each other while you are angry. This makes you a good husband and keeps the marriage healthy. 

3. Do not bring your work matters to home.

Some men carry all their work load home. They consider it an obligation to remind their wives of the hard work they do all day long. Along with that, the bad moods that come with the work, such as issues with other colleagues or the bosses, come back home too. To be a good husband, keep a check on that. When you come back home, come in a good mood. Even if you are mad, put that face aside. You can rant to your wife later, but when she hasn’t seen you the whole day, she wants to see you with smile at least. 

2. Pay attention to her issues.

Whether she stays at home or goes to work, you have to listen to her. She wants to tell you about her day. She wants to discuss her activities with you. Most men tend to assume that if she is a house wife, she will not have anything interesting to say. They get annoyed at their milkman or laundry stories. A good husband will not care about whether his wife was at an interesting warzone, or at home – he will just want to hear her out to make her feel wanted. 

1. Give her an equal share of the house affairs.

Some men tend to divide the house affairs assuming that the cleanliness affairs go to her while the finances stay with him. If you want to be a good husband, keep her informed of all the matters at home. Keep her informed about how you are paying the bills, what are you saving and how are the other activities of the house carried out. Most women only know that they have to call their husbands during sanitation problems or when they need a carpenter, because the husband maintains such contacts. Do not force her to do such jobs – if she doesn’t want to – but at least keep her well informed about how these things work.

6 signs you are not with the right person

A relationship is all about compatibility and happiness. There is no point in staying with someone if they make you miserable or they make you feel worthless. Consider the following signs and if you can relate to any one, you should consider where you are going.

6. They constantly remind you of the past.

Some people have it in their nature that they just cannot tolerate someone else’s happiness. They could be just jealous of your happiness or they are extremely frustrated over their lives. They will remind you of your past and even when you’ve become better, they will remind you of how you were once a horrible person.
Do you really think it is all worth it if he or she has to bring you down to feel good?

5. They compulsively lie to you.

Trust is one of the very important characteristics of a good relationship and what good is it if he or she lies to you? Imagine being left out of details or not knowing what really happened because they are trying to save themselves by lying to you. Do not live with such a person because no matter how minor it is, a lie is a lie.

4. They don’t respect your space.

There is no point of staying in a relationship when you’re are always on the giving side. If you feel that he or she comes to you when they have time, and not when you need them, then you really need to reconsider things. If you are not someone’s priority, how do you expect them to treat you specially? If they can’t take out time for you or be there when you need them, there is no point in dragging a one-sided relationship.

3. They don’t respect your ambitions.

They always say that if you can dream something, you can do it. Your partner should be the person who supports you on this. He or she should be the one who constantly motivates you to achieve big in life and if they remind you of how you dream too big or that your ambitions are not within you reach, let them go.

2. They suffocate you.

Being with someone doesn’t mean that they are entitled to keep you in a locked cage because that is not the point of a relationship. You feel like you are constantly put down and that you don’t have freedom. If you are scared of expressing yourself freely because they will judge you then get out. If they can’t love you for who you are, do they really love you?

1. They don’t believe in you.

Everyone has the power and ability to do a lot of things given that there are no negative forces constantly bringing you down. If you are constantly being reminded of how horrible you are and how you’re far from what you think of yourself, you will fail to do things that are simple.